I was stuck in Newfoundland for a few days as not one, but two blizzards passed through this god forsaken province. I had also recently subscribed to Tinder on my phone – you know the app – swipe left and right. Well, if you are going to get stuck in not one, but two blizzards (and you are single), this is definitely the app for you.
It was while stuck in my rental apartment that I happened across a local. The truth is several locals. Thus, the Tinder effect if you are even remotely NOT ugly. I must be a few grades east of hideous because I had a few matches on this particular trip.
As anyone knows, most matches on Tinder go no where. Some go to places that make you feel uncomfortable. And a lucky few have potential. I had one of each.
In the first category, we have the match that didn’t go anywhere, which in the grand scheme of category two and three doesn’t mean anything. It only complicates matters when you get more than one conversation going. Was it you or the other person I told I was freakishly tall? Easier to have one conversation to keep everything straight and avoid “foot in mouth” outbreaks.
The second category – I had one of those. Lovely person I’m sure. Diligent for sure but when I was called “Muffins” after a few text conversations, I knew that this wasn’t the person for me. My grandmother came up with better pet names for me than this stranger. I’m sensitive about my “muffin” and I’m working very hard to eliminate that for the right person in category three.
In category three I met Ms. Amazing. As I write this, a month later, Ms. Amazing and I continue our chats and talks. I love her personality. I’ve long since left the province of Newfoundland, but I’m surprised at how much I’m suddenly feeling drawn back. Let’s me give you a glimpse of why.
I really enjoy talking with someone who loves to play. Someone who is willing to play with language, engage in a battle of wits, and not shy away from a showdown of intelligence. In other words, someone not afraid to have a few laughs and not take things too seriously.
This particular individual is going through a bit of difficult situation. Her “rock” – her dad – has been terminally diagnosed after a courageous 18 year (yes 18 years!) battle against cancer. She has selflessly been by his side supporting her mother the past month. Come on guys – that is so ridiculously attractive. As a father of three daughters, to have a daughter be at your side giving unwavering supporting and love – beautiful. I’m very proud to have met this person.
Every once and while, we meet special people in this world.